Your Employees are Human: Convince Them That You Are, Too


There’s one universal truth that applies to all different sizes and types of businesses: a company’s greatest assets are its employees. I’ve heard the dissenters yelling, “No! The greatest asset is the customer!” But think about it: employees add value, character, and innovation, and all of these things lead to customers and revenue.

Employees are crucial, and you need to keep them. Employees need to be treated like the valuable assets they are. Otherwise, you’ll lose a trained and integral piece of your business to a competitor who isn’t afraid to show appreciation and respect to employees.

Stand up in your leadership position and demonstrate an “attitude of gratitude” when dealing with employees in order to fight off a negative and resentful workplace vibe that eats away at productivity.

Values drive decisions, decisions drive behaviors, and behaviors drive results

Employees are human beings. They each have their own emotional and internal drivers, or values, that motivate them to do the things they do. If you want to work in harmony with others in a way that yields the best results, you should be cognizant and honor the top values of the people you work with. It shows respect, consideration, and good leadership.

Approximately 80% of a person’s decisions are based on emotion, not reason. Go into your management position recognizing the need for a large degree of both emotional and social intelligence.

Personal values drive decisions and decisions drive behaviors; therefore, it inevitably becomes behaviors that yield professional results. Taking the time to appreciate an employee’s internal drivers will promote a healthy and productive workplace.

Why leaders need to show the love to employees

-       Dr. Gary Chapman’s book, The Five Love Languages, repeatedly warns that people will inevitably lash out when they do not feel loved. Neglect leads to a drain on a person’s energy, and his ability to run at peak performance is ruined. Remember, employees are human and need to be treated as such.

-       When employees do not feel like their work is appreciated, results suffer, morale decreases, and as a result, turnover increases. A high turnover rate reflects horribly on a business. Avoid it with an attitude of appreciation and respect amongst employees.

-       You know that invisible energy that surrounds a company and drives corporate culture? It has an unparalleled affect on employee performance and loyalty. If employees enjoy going to work every day and feel valued, they’re much less likely to leave you in the lurch by accepting another position elsewhere.

-       Ever held a position within a negative corporate culture? Unappreciated workers feel justified in sharing how they feel at the water cooler, and negativity spreads like a virus. Undervaluing employees can create a resentful culture that leaves a venomous undercurrent in an organization, which serves as a dark force against a business’s goals. Prevent this corporate sickness by just showing a little love and gratitude to the people working for you.

How to Fight the Negative Force

 Learn: Take each employee through a personal values sorting exercise or discussion to determine his or her top internal motivators. You become a better leader by learning about each employee and how to personally motivate him or her. It also allows a new culture to blossom in which employees are open, transparent, and authentic about what drives them.

Plan: Create a corporate policy that requires effective and positive communication. Yes, this will not always work, so encourage employees to find a trusted “vent buddy” to blow off steam. Venting privately is healthy. Bitter water cooler talk is contagious. Prevent it.

Organize: Align people with tasks that work in harmony with their top values and strengths so friction is reduced and energy is best utilized.

Demonstrate: You’re their leader. Model the kinds of behaviors that elevate people on a personal level. Remember, behavior drives results.

  • http://www.welovetattoos.com/ John Gerald

    The article is informative and clearly puts it that when employees are not appreciated, they tend to rebel. Employers should try all they can to make their employees feel happy.

    • http://twitter.com/tomschulte Tom Schulte

      Hi John,

      Thanks for your comment! And you are right, when employees think of their organization as a living being and work to strengthen it as an athlete would, perform always goes up! And the best way to do that is in creating and maintaining an environment where people can grow, reach goals, and feel proud of their efforts and accomplishments.

      If you want, please join my Linked 2 Leadership Group on LinkedIn! I would love to have you on board!

      Tom

  • Tammy Redmon

    Great article Tom!
    The bottom line approach for leaders I see here is to “model the way”. If you want your team to appreciate the company and put performance as a top deliverable, then model that behavior to them. 
    You said it well an ‘attitude of gratitude’ is a key element. Leaders often default to finger pointing when things are going well or there is dissension among the ranks. Your article offers a shift in perspective, acknowledge people for their contribution through honoring their values first.  Excellent!

    • http://twitter.com/tomschulte Tom Schulte

      Hi Tammy,

      Thank you for your very kind words. Your are so right about modeling the behaviors you want to see in others. A variation on on old adage might be “follower see, follower do!” 

      So the message is that leaders need be aware to model the very best behaviors to get the the very best out of your teams. It’s really quite simple :O)

      I am glad you liked the article! Keep checking back for more.

      Tom

  • http://www.motocms.com/flash-templates/ Emily Williams

    Tom, thanks for sharing. I fully agree with you that the best proof that you are a real “human” :) boss is always show your employees that you appreciate their efforts, time and what is the most important, that you appreciate them! 

  • Franklin Newsletter

    As a boss, we should be kind to our employees because we should set an example of a good leader. Our employees is a human and also your a human, we are born have an equal rights. The only difference is your the boss. And also, we should love our employees and appreciate their work.

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  • http://amazeline.com/ Debra

    You can be the boss and a friend at the same time. The key to great professional relationship with employees is that they feel that they can reach out to you but still maintaining the fact that they work for you.

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    Yes that’s right,  employees are human beings and  bosess must show respect, consideration, and good leadership.

  • Valentina

    ‘Modeling the behaviors’ is a key point. It is like the image on the mirror. You obtain what you are…